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Dream 273: Be A Man

images(3)Dream 273: A 33-year-old man dreamt that he fathered a child with his younger brother’s girlfriend.

 

Interpretation

To begin to take this dream apart, one has to realize that each character in the dream represents a part of the dreamers psyche or mind. Men tend to go with action part while women usually represent emotional parts of the mind.

 

The first step is to find out what his brother and his girlfriend separately represent to the dreamer. His brother was younger and impulsive and extroverted and social. So his brother represents action. The dreamer himself was a passive accountant who was introverted.

 

So the dream is calling for the dreamer to be more extroverted and somewhat impulsive. His subconscious is trying to move him from being passive into being more actively involved with others. A new baby represents a new part of the dreamer’s mind. In that way, it represents new potential that is being developed.

 

This is what the dream means on the first level. The dream is also true on the second or interpersonal level. He recently started to date a woman who used to date his younger brother. She was very extroverted and social. The dream was calling for him to develop the qualities of being more social while giving approval to his recent dating. When both levels collapse together like that, we call it condensation.

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Chucky Tries to Get Lucky

Chucky tries to get luckyDream 239

A 16-year-old teenager dreamt that she was driving a white car. Next to her on the seat was Chucky who was a malicious and torturous puppet. She felt like she could stay friends with him and he would not hurt her as long as she treated him a certain way. She did not want to get involved with him, but did not want to insult him either.

Interpretation

She was bisexual. On the basis of this dream, I asked her if she found herself preferring girls more now. She indicated that indeed was the case. She then talked about how an acquaintance that she really didn’t know very well asked her out for a date when she was sitting in her car at a grocery store.

The boy was seen by her peers as repulsive and no one liked him. She let him down easy and made up some excuse. She was careful not to offend him.

She felt that she had to handle her sexuality in a similar way in the sense that she now preferred girls, although being bisexual this preference would change from time to time. She felt even though she now preferred girls that she had to treat a boys that were interested in her a certain way or face consequences. She was hurt too many times by men which might explain the torturous Chucky puppet character. It is interesting that it was a puppet because the part of her that related to males felt like an imposter to some degree at the current time.

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